| My new home in Kulykivka |
It has been 9 days since my departure date, and I am just now getting settled into my new lovely home in sweet small town, Kulykivka. This town has approximately 5,866 people residing in it with an additional 7 “foreigners” to the town: 5 of us Trainees, and Natalia (our language facilitator) and Roman (our technical/cross cultural facilitator). I cannot speak for all of us Americans residing here right now, but I have liked what I have seen so far. It is definitely different than home, but I thank God for putting me in a home where I feel completely comfortable. My host mother інна has really taken the role of “Mother” and has been taking excellent care of me. Катя, my 15 year old host sister, has also been a huge blessing. We had an instant connection (probably because she is the only one who speaks English, but also because we are both interested in each others’ culture that we never run out of things to say—plus she has an excellent taste in music!). ігор is my host dad, but I have not gotten to know him other than what Kate has told me about him. He has been in Kyiv for work and will return home tomorrow.
Today is what I would call the “first day of training”. I am literally back in school taking the biggest crash course ever. I am learning Ukrainian, and boy is it freakin hard! Not only is it difficult, but the people in our community speak Surjek which is a mixture of both Ukrainian and Russian—Like really, can you make this any more difficult?! We have to figure out what word goes to what language?! Just so all you know, It is Tak—not Da. Poka is a Russian word (I could go on for awhile…) Anyways, getting back on track, Natalia is not messing around when it comes to learning the language, I bet you I will thank her for that in 3 months but right now my brain feels like it is about to pop! With homework, trying to learn how to roll my Rs, getting to know my host family more, settling in, and getting to know town, it gets pretty tiring and I am only on day 2 of week 1 of our 12 week training!!!
But I am also going to put up post-it notes on all the furniture around the house so that I can learn words quicker/easier.
Cutting this short, I just want to let you all know that I am still in my “honeymoon phase” of culture shock, but I definitely know I am not in America anymore.
It is hard to:
· Not smile all the time (especially when people just STARE at you)
· Communicate when you don’t speak the language
· Be the darkest person in a town of 6,000 (actually, it isn’t hard at all- I am getting very very pale)
· Walk around town for 2 hours when it is approximately 30° outside plus wind
· Eat potatoes all day when I don’t even like potatoes
· Be in my room knowing it was my host parents room before I got here
· Learn the language
But all of these are easy to overcome especially when my host mom makes me DELICIOUS Pilaf for dinner with the addition of red pepper flakes in it – thanks to Mary!! (all 3 of us put some in our bowls!)
| The map I made of my community |
This Saturday We are going to Kolychyvka to meet with our link group and to buy cell phones (for me, I will just be buying a sim card). It should be nice to see some other familiar faces! My host mom wanted to go into chernihiv this weekend with Kate and I to get McDonalds so that I can get some “homey food” HAHA
Anyways, this is really long and rambled, so if you have made it this far—thank you for putting up with me for all these years!
| Me, Kate, Luda's sister, and Robin (the other girl PCT) |
Until next time,
Мене взаті морган і я амеріканка з штат салифория.
Пока!
I will try and write more this weekend after my trip to Kolychivka!